Tuesday, July 15, 2008
one of my frens aked me this qn juz..she and her fren was wondering why guys treat friendship like veri differently from gals..she also mentioned whether guys fear commitment...
For me now,i am not afraid of commiting myself to a friendship...friends are there for a reason...u dun juz spend time with them when they are having good times and juz leave them when they are having the darkest period of their lives.. sumtimes,i am stunned of actions on what i shud do to commit myself to a friendship seriously...
I do admit that i had the fear of commiting to a friendship once...sometimes,u neva knoe whether ur giving too little or too much to ur friends...in the past,friendship was like nuting to me..it was when i came into my late secondary school life that i realised that friendship is a gift that is always there for the aking for everyone...it's onli a matter of whether u wan to reach out for it or nt...
i tink sumtimes the problems with guys is they dun know how to commit themselves to a friendship...especially when u got another commitment like a girlfriend...i always ask myself if one day i have a gf,how do i balance out such that i dun spend too litle time with both sides..I have frens who completely spend their time with their gf/bf that they forget their frens actualli exist...so i duno whether i might actualli be one of them...come to think of it,which gf doesnt like to be dote on...
Me and some of my frens might be from diff school but that doesnt mean we are from different worlds....i'm always there for my frens who has problems and need a listening ear...and for the umpteen times i have mentioned,i do NOT find frens a burden when they tell me ur prob...i rather u tell me ur prob rather than make me ponder and get worried about it...i might not be able to help u but at least,u all can pour ur heart out rite..that's better than keeping it all to urself and when something happens to u,i wun have the slightest idea that u had that problems all along..
tat's all ican talk about commting to a friendship..reali got nuting else for me to say...dunno whether this answers ur qn but tt is all i can say
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